http://www.tmz.com/2010/03/22/jesse-james-sandra-bullock-janine-lindemulder-custody-court/
by JanineakaSunnymom March 8, 2010 2:50 AM EST Hello, my name is Janine Aikman, Sunnys mother. It saddens me to read things so many of you know nothing about. You clearly love the drama and think you have it all figured out. That's not quite the case. For the record Sandra has done an incredible job helping to raise our daughter. And Jesse is a good, decent father...they care and love the kids more than life itself. As do I. I'm 41 and a free spirit I made a choice to partake in the Adult Industry when I was 18 without much thought to the future...if I knew then what I know now I would have altered my thinking. But my life is my journey and I will take the good with the bad ...what pains me the most is how I've hurt people around me. I'm here finishing out my last couple months here in Portland at a wonderful halfway house. Maybe this year away was what I needed to help change the chapter of my life. I'm not drugged out, not at all, although I might look the part with my ever growing collection of tattoos. I haven't shot a porn movie in 4 years....I've never directed or produced an adult film, hell, I don't even own any! I'm not a bad mother, I've made bad, questionable choices in my life but where I'm at today, life is good. Healthy,focused and I'm on a healing, loving, gentle, non-judgemental, journey though this difficult, painful time. Feel free to judge if you must, but my felon of a husband (who himself is on the same healing journey), myself, my 2 glorious children know the truth. We are on to a life consisting of communication, healing, learning, growing, laughter, happiness, and I pray one day Sandra and Jesse can put their issues aside work with us together as a team. We ALL love Sunny and want the best for her.....time to put our dukes down for Sunnys sake. This was from my heart, Janine Lindemulder Aikman
Well tattoo beauties are tweeting away including Janine counting down the days, hours and minutes until she is free to leave the half way house where she is staying. Janine has to be one of the most beautiful women in porn and if she could stay out of trouble I vote her most likely to cross over in to main stream entertainment but she has already just married a new guy with a bad resume. She went to jail for tax troubles. Her life reads like a movie. She is articulate and smart but not smart enough to avoid trouble. She had a nasty custody fight with Sandra Bullock and Jesse Jane for her daughter and she lost. It will be interesting what happens to the children that Sandra Bullock was so devoted to parenting from both of Jesse James marriages.
Janine in her own words
I imagined Janine in the female lead of the film The Wrestler. In the mean time, Sandra Bullock and her husband are front page news because Bullock has moved out of their home and rumors are flying he had torrid affair with a stunning tattooed model named Michelle. James has now issued this statement http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20352642,00.html. You can see her twitter name but I can't publish it on this blog. I read Michelle is a mother also but the father has custody of their two boys. The husband reports she is mentally ill and bi-polar. She has has been photographed with Nazi imagery. Many think Bullock will not take Jesse James back.
Bad boys are more fun. Enjoying them is one thing, having them around for the long term is a completely different matter. I don't think anyone can expect a bad boy to be faithful and in fact probably more than half of married couples cheat or at least get divorced in America. Again I feel most sorry for the kids when there are problems in relationships...
Sandra joked that she wore the Academy down to get the Oscar and people I spoke to said that was no joke. The book The Blind Side was excellent but the script fell flat and was more like a Disney animated movie. Yes the actors were good but it just wasn't Oscar level film.
Bullock is a good person and there is no doubt about it. For now there are only rumors but the rumors are what most people would expect of the bad boy image Jesse James projected except when escorting Bullock to award shows.
I feel sorry for the kids from all these broken marriages and they are the true victims in this story.
p.s. Anyone who reads this blog knows I wanted Gabby Sidibie to win the Oscar. I thought her performance was powerful and courageous. It took courage to just play that role let alone deliver the performance she did.
