Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Abusers Don't Play Fair
An abuser doesn’t “play fair.”
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm
When I was attacked --- first given a verbal assault, than lied about, than followed -- creepy, than given the finger in an extremely aggressive manner so shocking I felt to get that on video --- I noted my attacker said she was going to slap the crap out of me or something like that.
Well she lied.
She did not slap me but after removing her shoes, she made a fist and than ran at me with the goal of punching me in the eye.
This was not going to be a fair fight because I was still holding 2 bags -- one very heavy on my left shoulder, my left arm had endured 2 injections to numb it and I help my Iphone in my right hand.
There should have been no fight. I was a patient seeing an MD that shared the suite. I was happy and in a positive mind set. What happened to me should never have happened.
I still fought off my attacker but what do you do when her boss an MD that is suppose to help people and she refuse to take responsibility. Really shocking but look at the week...I survived my assault. How many New Yorkers did not?
Well I just am looking through articles on all different types of assaults.
For now I wait for the police and see what they are going to do since I did not call 911 but filed a criminal complaint.
I had a talk with another assault victim today....well it was emails not talking but our email chat helped.
I have past memories of people doing evil to me and at some point decided that G-d or karma if you believe in karma will some how serve Justice.
Are legal system is so flawed but for now in waiting mode. I am profoundly upset but one thing I have to say is I got a lot of love and support from People that is profound.
The love and support I got easily surpasses the evil I have endured.
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm
When I was attacked --- first given a verbal assault, than lied about, than followed -- creepy, than given the finger in an extremely aggressive manner so shocking I felt to get that on video --- I noted my attacker said she was going to slap the crap out of me or something like that.
Well she lied.
She did not slap me but after removing her shoes, she made a fist and than ran at me with the goal of punching me in the eye.
This was not going to be a fair fight because I was still holding 2 bags -- one very heavy on my left shoulder, my left arm had endured 2 injections to numb it and I help my Iphone in my right hand.
There should have been no fight. I was a patient seeing an MD that shared the suite. I was happy and in a positive mind set. What happened to me should never have happened.
I still fought off my attacker but what do you do when her boss an MD that is suppose to help people and she refuse to take responsibility. Really shocking but look at the week...I survived my assault. How many New Yorkers did not?
Well I just am looking through articles on all different types of assaults.
For now I wait for the police and see what they are going to do since I did not call 911 but filed a criminal complaint.
I had a talk with another assault victim today....well it was emails not talking but our email chat helped.
I have past memories of people doing evil to me and at some point decided that G-d or karma if you believe in karma will some how serve Justice.
Are legal system is so flawed but for now in waiting mode. I am profoundly upset but one thing I have to say is I got a lot of love and support from People that is profound.
The love and support I got easily surpasses the evil I have endured.